Mens Groups

Guys’ Night Out
Guys’ Night Out is a local trans* group that meets at 1pm on the second Saturday of the month at Equal=Grounds, 750 South Ave. Transmen and those identifying with trans-masculine experience (including questioning individuals) are welcome.  Please know this is a welcoming space with no set expectations on what it means to identify as a “transman” each of us has such a diverse background and life experiences!! There is no commitment to attend each month.  There will sometimes be a few people or a tableful of amazing people who attend.  Conversations range from topics regarding family life, personal experiences with regard to medically/socially transitioning and how life is going in general. 

In addition to the set meeting at EG the group takes part in things like going to the movies, laser tag, pool and bowling.  This happens almost monthly with the ideas of where to go coming from the group.  The activities out are a mix of events just for the guys and some that are open for friends/family/partners to come and join in!!

***PS is you have some social anxiety, know you would be sitting at a table with people who can relate…you can come and share your life story or sit quietly taking in those around you 🙂

If you would like to know more contact Adrian at

585-244-8640 ext. 14

Come pitch your tent at the pond.

Just over 1 hour from Rochester in Western New York State. Jones Pond is a members only, adult male (21+), gay camping facility with clothing optional areas on 117 acres. Large RV and tent sites, cabins and guest house. DJ/dancing every weekend, hiking, swimming and social events our the wazoo. Call or visit our website for directions and the events schedule. See ya there!

Formerly known as Atlantic Five O, this is a social group for gay and bisexual men of all ages.

Second Tuesdays. Call or e-mail for time and location.

The Men’s Cooking Group (MCG) of Rochester provides a forum for individuals to learn the basics of good home cooking in a friendly social setting. We prepare a meal and participate in all phases of meal preparation. This group is open to men of all ages.

We meet once a month on a Sunday evening at member’s houses for socializing, cooking and eating! Call or e-mail for time and location. Contact Person: Yu Yin


We meet once a month at a member’s home. Call or check our website for more information, or contact Tony at
585-244-8640 X19

Since 1982, the members of the Rochester Gay Men’s Chorus unite proudly as gay men to seek a better world for ourselves, our community, and for our nation by sowing the seeds of harmony through the universal language of music.

Check out our concert schedule on our website.

Rehearsals on Thursdays, 7pm – 9:30pm at Downtown United Presbyterian Church.
(585) 423-0650

The Rochester Rams M.C. is Rochester’s foremost gay motorcycle and leather club, as well as being one of the oldest clubs of its type in the country. All who are interested in the leather scene are invited to check us out. Our general meeting is open to the public. We meet the Wednesday before bar night at 7:30pm. Meetings are held at our home bar, the Bachelor Forum, 670 University Ave.

Rochester Rams bar night is at the Bachelor Forum Bar and Grill, Third Saturdays, 8pm – 2am.

All male health fitness and social club.

Facilities include a steamroom and sauna, fitness center, sun deck and tanning bed, personal lockers, fantasy room, movie lounge, refreshments, and private rooms. 18-25 free on some nights (check website), half price weekends.

Rooms available for rent for 12 hours.

Must be 18 or older. Open 24/7.
(585) 454-1074

Rochester Male Naturists (ROMANS) is a social organization of Gay Naturists located in Rochester, New York

Our members ranges in ages from mid twenties to seventies. On average we have maintained a membership of thirty guys over the last few years. We might not be a large group but we have a great time and enjoy comradery in the nude. Please keep in mind there are no GQ models in our group although some of our guys have modeled for the local art classes where they take all shapes and sizes.

If you have thought about social nudity but were apprehensive about being nude the first time there are several clothed events such as eating out as a group at restaurants, going to concerts, movies, where you can meet other members of our group in a clothed environment.

During the fall/winter months we hold monthly dinner parties at member’s homes; usually the third Saturday of the month Our group also participates in monthly nude swims at a local athletic club, which is open to all naturists.

Membership is open to men over 21 years of age who have an interest in social nudism. Most members come from the greater Rochester area, though Buffalo, Syracuse, Utica and the southern tier are also represented.